Love yourself!!

Try to make yourself as happy as possible, it will then be easier for others to make you happy.
1/24/2010


I believe that whenever you have a problem with somebody you care about you need to first understand the root of the issue. You have to break it down and ask yourself "why is this bothering me so much?" Is it out of jealousy, insecurity, or perhaps a personal frustration? I have found that one of the three could often be the case, thus the problem ultimately lies within. Changing the perspective of the problem can really help eliminate it, because changing your mind is much easier then changing another's. 


Not that this is an easy accomplishment, but sometimes it is absolutely necessary. And we all know this life ain't easy! Trying to incorporate yourself in the problem won't always fix it. For example, getting upset that a friend is always flaking out on plans can't be solved unless they stop flaking, but your hurt feelings can be once you stop relying on that person. You have to literally convince yourself that it is not worth it to get upset and sorta move in a different direction. Don't set yourself up for a probability of disappointment, set yourself up for success.


Also...
Always be mindful that you control your attitude, however, your attitude will affect others and you should use this to your advantage i.e.BLOG IT! Positivity is powerful and can be proven when you take the negative words out of your vocabulary and replace them with their opposite. Your whole outlook will change in a forward direction.


Okay?
Peace and Love pretty butterflies. 
mollymoll


"You can't love no one til you love you, cause when you do find someone to love you'll know what to do." -Murphy Lee